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  • Trying to live on my own terms.

    Okay, so, I've got a few base clients, but it is taking longer than I hoped to have full time work, or at least enough billings to fully support myself (thankfully, dear old Dad has enough work to be done around the house, I am at least paying my way in labor).

    So, I'm starting a personal assistant business in the neighborhood. It was either that or a part time job. I'd prefer this, and I'm starting early enough that if it doesn't work out, I'll likely still be able to pick up a part time gig closer to the holidays.

    If you could pay someone to do one thing in your life to make your life easier, what would it be?

  • Where's Punky?

    I have election fatigue, work stress (as in I don't currently have enough of it), and some personal crap. All of this keeps from really being able to form coherent blog sentences right now. But, I miss you guys, so I thought I'd say, "hi."

  • London in 2 Days

    Part One: London

    My flight got into Heathrow at 6:35 a.m. I had pre-purchased a ticket for the Heathrow Express so, once I got through Immigration (which was relatively quick and I got to chat with a nice Canadian lady who was meeting her daughter for a holiday) I just hopped on the train and took off for Paddington Station (you know, where the bear comes from).

    My understanding was that the bride (henceforth known as JK) had her last dance lesson (with the groom for the reception) that morning and would meet me at the hotel between 4:00 and 4:30. The hotel was, in her words less than a mile from the station. So, I got online looked up the Rose Court Hotel and yahoo mapped my path. My plan was to check my luggage and explore on my own.

    However, what I failed to realize was that there are two Rose Court Hotels within a mile of Paddington Station. I picked poorly. Fortunately, the lady at the wrong Rose Court has had this happen before, and pulled out a map and drew me a path to the correct Rose Court Hotel.

    So, with the exception of lugging around my luggage (I did try to pack lightly, but since the entire purpose was a wedding, I had to pack several outfits for the various festivities) it actually worked out well. I got to see quite a bit of the West End.

    Once I finally found the correct hotel, about 9:15, I was actually kind of tired (truthfully, I was tired before, the guy sitting next to me had legs as long as I am tall, I had no room and couldn't sleep on the plane despite taking a sleeping pill). Fortunately for me, the hotel had a room ready and let me go ahead and check in.

    So, I thought, I'd take a nap. I flipped on the tv, and started watching Batman cartoons. About 9:45 a.m. there was a knock on the door, which kind of freaked me out given my half-asleep state. I opened the door and it was JK. Apparently, she had sent an email after I left letting me know the class had been changed and she would meet me in the morning.

    Oddly enough, she had also gone to the wrong Rose Court Hotel, too. We probably passed each other while I was walking away from and she towards the wrong hotel. We laughed. At that point, and probably for the best, she got me up and moving. Honestly, a lot of those first two days were a blur. I know we walked through Hyde Park, and had tea. Did a little shopping (as she had a few minor things to pick up for the wedding the next weekend), had lunch at the Black Friar pub (where I learned that the malt vinegar breaks down the fat in the fish and chips, supposedly anyway, I choose to believe it). A quick trip through the National Gallery in Trafalgar Square (which reminded me of Union Square in SF, I wonder if Union wasn't modeled on Trafalgar).

    Then, back to the hotel, where I napped for an hour, then we went and had Indian food. Quite good. Then we got a bottle of wine and went back and shared it in the room while we caught up with each other. Sadly, the last time we had seen each other was in January 2006 when she came to visit me in San Francisco a few months before she moved to Sweden.

    The next day we did the Original London Sightseeing Tour hop on hop off buses, it was great. Except for the rain, though, did we let that stop us from sitting in the open air up top? No. We did not. It was just us and 3 brave Frenchmen up there. We received ponchos out of trash bag plastic to wear and of course headphones to plug in and listen to the tour. Given that your ticket is good for 24 hours I would recommend it to a first time visitor for the first or second day, you see everything and then can decide what you really want to see in depth. Given that I only had two days, it was definitely a good way to see the main sites.

    We had lunch at another pub, The Argyll Arms, thereby securing a free t-shirt for having completed the Soho and Noho Ale trail. Our waitress (we ate in the dining room) actually gave us two t-shirts, a "girlie" style and big one. JK let me have both, apparently, she's done the ale trail more than once.

    Much like I was overwhelmed by the history in Washington D.C. I had much the same feeling in London, moreso, actually, given that the time line is greater. London is like any other big city, and like any other big city it has a distinct personality and culture all its own.

    I definitely want to go back and delve a little deeper into some of the historical sites, and I'm sure the Queen would love to have tea with me (totally kidding).

    Oh, and I have to say, I did not experience any anti-American sentiments. Had a lot of people ask me about the upcoming election, but no one told me to "go home Yank" as I was told they would. So, that was nice. Honestly, I found the English to be very kind, open-minded, and interesting people.

    More to come:
    Part Two: Shirley
    Part Three: Cheshire and the wedding

  • back, again, again.

    Okay, so, still not quite ready to do the fun blog about the trip and the wedding. I think I caught something somewhere between here and San Antonio, throat hurts, mild fever, it is quite unfortunate.

    Good news is I've got clients who want me to do some work. Always a good thing.

    The funeral was a funeral, seeing my mom's family was good though, despite the unhappy occasion that brought us together. Seeing my cousin in the coffin was a startling reminder of mom's funeral, they had the same eyes and nose. But, my uncle is doing really well, he turns 75 next month (he was 12 or 14 years older than mom...I never can remember and don't feel up to the math right now). He quit salt and alcohol after a heart attack and subsequent renal failure during surgery a few years ago, and he's in really good shape now. Inspiring, actually. We are planning on going back to San Antonio for his birthday.

    Other news, Lance Armstrong is coming out of retirement to go for an 8th Tour de France. I do admire him as both an athlete and cancer advocate (I do wish his personal life wasn't reported on though) and I'm actually rather excited that he is going for it again.

  • and, off again

    I leave for San Antonio tonight. My cousin (mom's nephew) bought a motorcycle, I am not exactly sure what happened, but he got hit at an intersection and was killed. Funeral is tomorrow.

    So, the fun blog about my trip will have to wait.

  • she's baaack.

    And, really really tired.

    The wedding was beautiful (and I didn't cry or laugh during my reading, so yea!) and England is a beautiful place with kind and wonderful people.

    More later when, I'm back to normal.

  • A New Record

    I packed and unpacked and repacked 6 times.

    I'm finished.

    I still have room.

    I'm leaving on a jet plane (in T-minus 14 hours and counting).

  • Summer Retrospective

    When I left my job in mid-May, I promised myself a summer sabbatical. Yes, I did some work (I kind of have to since I have yet to become magically and independently wealthy), but I think I averaged maybe 15 hours a week. So, what did I do this summer? Well, let me tell you:

    • Drove from the San Francisco bay area to
      • Medford, OR to
      • Portland, OR to
      • Seattle, WA (where I got to hang with that most awesome of women Flibbertygibit) to
      • Spokane, WA (where I got to break bread with AtomBlonde and her husband, they are an adorable couple, relationships like that make me think maybe I could get married)
      • through Idaho to
      • Butte, MT (I know it isn't pronounced "butt" but, I kept saying it to myself anyway, 'cause in some ways, I'm 10 years old)
      • through Idaho, again
      • through Utah (north tip of SLC) to
      • Rock Springs, WY (a true boom town, which is kind of cool) to
      • Boulder, CO (where I got to have sushi! with LittleMissSuperfluous and meet her munchkin)
      • through Denver to
      • Pueblo, CO (where the pamphlets come from) to
      • Albuquerque, NM (where I got to hang with this MIA dude) onward to home
      • TEXAS!
    • Did I mention I did all of the above alone, well, I had my dogs, but no human accompaniment.
    • I planted a garden
      • Tomatoes
      • Peppers
        • Bell
        • Yellow Bell
        • Banana
        • Jalapeno
      • Strawberries (which I planted too late to get any fruit)
      • Cantaloupe 
      • Watermelon
      • Squash
      • Zucchini
      • Sweet Basil
      • Thai Basil
      • Lavender
      • Rosemary
      • and a Hibiscus my sister gave me as a welcome home present
    • Spent a week in the mountains at Red River, NM
      • Fished
      • Hiked
      • Climbed a mountain
      • Went to Taos
      • Got sunburned
    • Got a client
      • Branded a program
      • Designed marketing collateral
      • Helped launch program
    • Got my Texas sales and use tax number
    • Got another client
    • Submitted 4 other bids I am waiting to hear about
    • Billed clients and got paid
    • Mowed my dad's lawn many many many times
    • Went to the farmer's market on average once every two weeks
    • Asked a guy out on a date
    • Got blown off by aforementioned guy (but, whatever, I still asked, which is kind of huge for me)
    • Attended two martial arts tournaments (spectator only right now)
    • Got crush on totally new and different guy
    • Flirted shamelessly with guy mentioned immediately above
    • Hung out at the Horseshoe in Austin and musician spotted (it isn't stalking if you are with a friend)
    • Started working out again (woohoo! 100 push-ups...in sets of 25, but, still go me!)
    • Rode my bicycle (though not nearly enough, stupid humidity)
    • Danced in the rain
    • Designed my business cards, Web site, and service brochure
    • Wrote
      • On my two pilot ideas
      • On a short film script
      • Started a business blog
    • Hit a few wineries in the Texas Hill Country
    • Bought a lifetime membership to the martial arts school
    • Watched my portfolios go down in the market
    • Watched my portfolios recover a little in the market
    • Made and revised future plans many times over
    • Researched and visited apartments, and am fairly close to signing a lease
    • More or less stopped watching television live and stopped playing computer games
    • Went to PuttPutt with nephews a couple of times
    • Found out at PuttPutt while playing video games I am a pretty good (video game) sniper, not sure how I feel about that
    • Visited my Texas friends in Austin, Dallas, and Fort Worth (I'll get to Houston in the Fall, I promise)
    • Grilled copious amounts of meat about 6 times
    • Saw three musical gigs (concert would be too generous, venues were too small)
    • Realized that working from home is very very lonely
    • Got to be a regular at the local Starbucks because working at home is very very lonely
    • Procrastinated packing for England by writing a summer retrospective blog

  • Taking Umbrage

    Usually, I take umbrage (and don't leave any for anyone else) at being called naïve, and it is usually a label slapped on haphazardly, when the issue is really my idealism. However, when it comes to not knowing what a "dirty Sanchez" is, I'll happily go back to being naïve.

  • Strange Dreams

    When ever I get restless I have strange dreams. I guess between my upcoming overseas trip and my current lack of direction in life in general, I am pretty restless.

    Last night I dreamt that I posted the answers to Monday Movie Quotes on BrysonMC's site. Which makes sense for those who know he kindly (and kickassedly*) took over the MMQ while I was unavailable. But, still, in the dream I logged in to his site and posted. I am not a hacker (or cracker or whatever they call 'em these days) or an advanced math person but in my dream I created an algorithm that allowed me to log into anyone's xanga (don't worry BrysonMC and everyone else, I would never do that in reality, unless you gave me your password and asked me to post for you). It was odd. Maybe, psychologically speaking, I want aspects of other people's lives? I dunno.

    Also, had a dream about a splinter group from the Pinkerton's that worked to thwart the capitalists the Pinkerton's serve. But, that's because of a conversation with Tabin about an assassin who can kill with just a stapler.

    Ever have bizarrely strange dreams.

    *It's a word, just check your Punky to English translation dictionary.